How many of you out there would agree that in this day in age females are full of emotional issues and attach themselves to men quickly? This book tells the story of many women who give themselves completely over to the men in their lives seeking unconditional love. Only to realize that in exchange for the devotion they gave, received more emotional pain. Melissa is a beautiful, attractive divorcee who decides to expose the history of FOUR extremely intense but failed relationships. Her humor as she narrarates her own testimony will keep you chuckling as you relate to the struggle and identify your own "emotional baggage". Married young, she opens up about the tragic divorce. While playing the field, she describes life on the single scene and helps identify trends. With spiritual awareness and christian beliefs, this author chooses to reveal the imperfections of the female life. Accepting her own sinful nature she holds nothing back. Some explicit language is used but not overwhelming or too vulgar. Her writing style expresses the use of "ebonics" (or slang) as well as academic knowledge and challenging words. The invitation she offers makes you feel like you are listening to her talk over the phone. She embraces you into her journey. This book was written as a simple jump start to the heart for young teens, women and men who are concerned about the emotional health of the female gender. "But I'm not your man". When I heard this fool tell me that...1st emotion 'this bold mutha %#&@$!a'...2nd emotion 'but I don't even want you to be'...3rd emotion 'imma let him know that I will not be talked to like that'! So, I did exactly what my gut had been telling me to do the past two weeks and I boldly returned the comment with..."this is over". "Without a doubt, I believe that anyone reading this gem of microscopic insight into the heart of broken women will end up with a brand new perspective of themselves and others." ~Author